“Every time we reminisce about our birth experience, my husband, mother, mother-in-law, and basically everyone that was involved says, "I'm so glad Abby was there." I AM so glad we hired Abby to be my doula. Abby was there for me the second I hired her up until a couple of weeks after baby was born. She was the one I texted when I passed my mucus plug and went into labor. I was nervous, but her reply of excitement and assurance made me feel so much better. She drove to my house as soon as I decided I needed her. Just having her with me throughout the contractions brought me--and my husband--peace
Something I loved about Abby was her ability to coach not only me, but my husband through the entire process. She made sure he was involved and taught him how to be there for me. It was evident that she wanted it to be a special experience for us.
I experienced a long labor, but she was constantly encouraging and motivating me the entire time. I appreciated having someone who was really calm and gentle throughout the experience. She physically helped through a lot of the pain, but her encouragement was the best thing for me. I felt so supported because of her!
All in all, she made my birth space and experience comfortable and positive. Her kindness and gentleness were EXACTLY what I needed and what every momma deserves! She's an amazing doula and life-long friend.
-Adalyn (Waxhaw, NC)
“Abby was a wonderful support for me during my labor, both physically and emotionally. She showed my family so much love! My husband and I are both so grateful to have worked with her.”
-Ashley (Charlotte, NC)
“My husband and I had a fantastic first birth experience with Abby as our doula-- we can't recommend her enough! Abby was incredibly helpful, caring, understanding and nonjudgmental from the moment we retained her services.
Prior to our due date, Abby provided us with a wealth of resources and information and made a pointed effort to get to know my husband and I better. She was always available to answer any questions I had and was great about routinely checking in as we neared my due date.
When I went over a week past my due date, Abby helped me walk through my options without pushing me towards any one path, which was so appreciated. We opted to have an induction at 41 weeks for personal reasons, and she was very supportive and nonjudgmental! On the day of my induction, Abby helped make my hospital room cozy and warm, and she again was constantly available to answer any questions I had. I was set on having a pain medication-free labor and delivery, and I can't imagine how difficult it would have been without her there. Abby helped significantly -- she gave my husband and I tips and encouragement, she helped me with positioning and pain management, and she advocated for my husband and I with the doctors and nurses. Having her in the room made a world of a difference for my husband and I. I was (and remain!) so incredibly grateful for her support.
In sum, I can't recommend Abby enough! She was everything I could have asked for in a doula, and I feel lucky to have found her.”
-Cassie (Charlotte, NC)
"If you're searching for the perfect doula, stop your search now... it's Abby. My husband and I knew we wanted a doula for the birth of our first baby, but we didn't know we'd find a friend in the process. Through our initial meeting, the pre-natal appointments, the actual labor and delivery, and the post-partum visit - Abby feels like family to our family. I told everyone "I couldn't have done it without her" and I mean it. I looked to her for strength, comfort, reassurance, and encouragement and she provided all of that unwaveringly. Abby has a calm presence that immediately evokes trust.
There were multiple parts of my labor and delivery that felt "scary" to me and I'll never forget locking eyes with Abby asking her if I was okay and if the baby was okay and her steady, reassuring, confident self giving me the affirmation I needed. She provided essential oils, (fake because we were in a hospital) tea light candles, cold rags, massage, counter pressure etc. as well as constant verbal encouragement. She took time to get to know us and our preferences. We made clear we wanted our birth to be a spiritual experience and that we were Christian, and she helped cater to our desires in a way I imagine she'd cater to anyone's - regardless if she agreed with them like she did with us.
While we were already planning on naming our daughter Abigail, it felt fitting for her to share a name with a woman who had so much influence in bringing her into the world! Look no further - choose Abby!!”
-Rachel (Charlotte, NC)
“It is hard to put into words just how much I appreciate what Abby has done to support me and my husband with the birth of our first child. She is an absolute professional and helped us navigate all the decisions and plans so we were completely comfortable. She provided ongoing care throughout my pregnancy and checked in with me often. During my delivery we were thrown a few curveballs and Abby was there 100% coaching me. There were so many times I felt like I couldn’t keep going on the all natural path I had chosen and she was so calm and confident helping me dig deeper than I thought I could. She was just absolutely present for every moment and so focused on me. When my son was born she continued to make sure I was cared for and even ran out to grab my husband and I dinner!!! After we got home she continued to check in and make sure we were doing well and that nursing was moving along. I just can’t say enough good things about Abby. I would recommend her to any family member or friend and definitely plan to hire her for our next pregnancy!”
-Kate (Charlotte, NC)
“My husband and I cannot say enough glowing things about Abby. From the very first time we met her, we felt comfortable and at ease. She is full of knowledge, empathy and enthusiasm and would be the perfect addition to any birth team.
She provided two prenatal appointments where we talked about our fears, preferences and hopes and she shared her "bag of tricks" so that we would all feel empowered and prepared when the big day finally arrived. She was fully accessible via phone and text throughout my pregnancy and was full of encouragement and ideas when I went past my due date.
In labor, she was amazing. She kept me and my husband at ease, helped to advocate for our preferences with the hospital staff, and had lots of ideas about positioning and techniques to help with contractions. Things got rough at the end of my labor, Abby helped my husband and I stay calm and focused. It was like having a best friend/mom in the room with you, but one who is able to keep their cool despite crazy circumstances. If we decide to have more children, one of the first people we will call is Abby, we can't imagine doing "birth" without her!”
-Rachel (Charlotte, NC)
“I first knew that I had to hire Abby as soon as I read her bio. I instantly could tell that she had a passion for what she does, a sweet spirit, and a desire to help others. I also loved that she stated she liked to work with first-time moms and Christian moms, of which I was both.
After my husband and I met with Abby for the first time in-person, she instantly felt like a part of our family. She was always available to answer any questions or concerns I had during pregnancy, walked me through a birth plan we both felt comfortable with, and helped prepare us (as much as she could) for the big day.
When birthing day came, she was even more amazing. She was a constant source of reassurance and calm, always ready with a massage and encouraging words during every contraction. She never once lost her cool, and helped both my husband and I maintain ours as well. We definitely couldn’t have managed without her!
After my experience with Abby, I can’t imagine ever birthing a baby without a doula. And she is definitely the doula to hire! I highly recommend her and definitely plan to hire her again if baby #2 ever comes along.”
-Hannah (Charlotte, NC)
"From day one, Abby has been truly extraordinary. I became extremely excited and confident in my abilities to have a natural birth after initially meeting Abby! I knew for sure that Abby had to be my doula. Throughout my pregnancy, she was very responsive with any questions I had. She was very educated and informative on the matter. What I respected most about Abby was that she made you feel comfortable with her by allowing you to be yourself, and she never forced her views or opinions on you. That was very important to me. Throughout labor, she was very patient with me and stayed with me through every contraction - giving me the confidence to continue fighting on. Although I had a very long labor, I never lost hope because of her. She really made this experience exceptional and I truly can’t thank her enough on my beautiful natural birth."
-Shi (Charlotte, NC)
"Abby was amazing! From my first meeting with her, I knew she was going to place my needs and dream of a natural birth first without compromising the safety of our child. She took the time to get to know my husband and I and paid great attention to detail. She was very aware of our motivations and encouraged both of us along the process. Abby was very informative and provided me with so many resources and was available to answer any questions I may have. I felt very accepted by her and did not feel any judgement, but only support. I would recommend Abby to anyone of my friends, or even strangers. We will be forever grateful for her!"
-Drienie (Charlotte, NC)
"Our experience with Abby as a doula could not be any better. She was absolutely vital in helping us achieve a successful VBAC. Abby was available for advice and support for the duration of my pregnancy and postpartum. There were several times that I contacted Abby and she was able to provide evidence-based research studies to help me make an informed decision. She provided great reading materials and never made us feel pressured in any way.
She helped prepare my husband and me to labor effectively and advocate for the birth we wanted. She was very hands-on in teaching pain coping techniques.
She checked in with me weekly throughout my pregnancy and worked with us to have the best birth experience possible. I went into labor 2 weeks early (before our contracted on-call period) but Abby dropped everything to be there for the birth of our son. She had excellent backup doulas to help in the interim and coached me through a successful unmedicated VBAC as we wanted. I honestly would not have been able to do this without her.
Any mother would be extremely lucky to have Abby on their support team. Her positive attitude is motivating and she works to motivate you in the way that works best for you."
-Meagan (Mooresville, NC)
"I had a great experience with Abby! She was always easy to reach and get a hold of when I had questions or concerns. She is passionate about what she does and made the experience beautiful, sacred, and special.
She included my husband with techniques to use, suggested water when I didn't even think of it, and other small things that supported me in my birth. Highly recommend her!"
-Autumn (Charlotte, NC)